If I were to write a letter to you, my client, or future client, this is what I would say. And I mean every word of it…
I’d like to share with you how much I love and respect you for who you are, your willingness to be open, vulnerable and honest with me, and share your deepest pains and hurts, secrets which often you have told no-one else, not even the closest people in your life.
I really understand how much you have been through to find yourself in the place you now are, seeking the help you so desperately need, and I honour that.
Having been through the same, or very similar, experience myself, I know what it’s like to be there.
I also know we share similar values, which is one of the reasons we both ended up in this place, things like honesty, integrity, caring for others, not hurting others feelings, putting other’s first.
But deep down we also care about our own happiness and wanting to fulfil our own dreams, so now it’s time to put yourself first and make that happen.
I know you want to be living your life to the full, enjoying your work, family, friends and special people in your life. You deserve this, as every human being does, even if you don’t fully believe it for yourself yet.
I know that by reaching out to me you have decided that finally enough is enough, and that you have decided it’s time to make yourself a priority and put yourself first. You have decided to be courageous and that you are going to do whatever it takes to transform your current situation into one of joy and triumph.
You have decided you deserve to be happy and well, and that you are going to make this your number one priority above all else. I congratulate you for this because this is the first step in turning your life around – committing to you!
You have decided you will no longer put up with hurt and pain in your life, whether physical, mental or emotional, and I know I can help you through this. I know what it’s like to feel bad, or be treated badly, and it’s not fun, or ok. Together we can change this.
I am absolutely committed to your success. I will be here for you all the way, for as long as you need help. I will support and guide you step by step, walking alongside you until you reach your goal. I want you to succeed, your success is my desire, and I say that from the bottom of my heart. And I know I can help you get there.
You are no longer alone in this journey. I know how lonely this place can be, where you feel no-one understands your needs, pain or hurt. I know how crushing it can be to not know which way to turn or who to turn to for help, and how difficult it is to be walking this journey alone. I know what it’s like when people tell you there’s no hope or nothing you can do, how devastating that is. Fortunately I also know it’s not true, and that there is plenty of hope and there are plenty of solutions.
So I want you to know you are no longer alone, you have me by my side, because I know how much difference it makes on all levels to have support, and to feel safely guided with personal support. You are no longer alone in this journey.
My dream for you is that you reach your desired goals in as short a time as possible, so that you can return to your life in an even better way than ever before.
Ultimately you will experience the freedom that comes from good health and authentic happiness, leaving you free to pursue your goals and dreams, whether that be with your family, friends, children, partner, work, travel or other. This will then allow you to fulfil the purpose you have come here for – your own unique purpose for being on this planet. Living from an authentic place of health and happiness will allow you to do this, and is a natural outcome of this inner transformation.
The fact that I have already walked this journey already myself, plus helped hundreds of others do the same, means I know I have the perfect tried-and-tested tools and strategies to help you reach your goal. After having tried so many approaches myself, (200 and counting), I know what works and what doesn’t, meaning I can short-cut the journey for you like you wouldn’t believe.
With my natural intuitive abilities to see right through to the core of the problem immediately, from our very first session, and know exactly what’s right for you as the unique individual that you are, I know what you need. This is not an off-the-shelf solution, it’s tailor-made for you.
Because of my training in multiple modalities I can pick and choose the best tools and strategies for you depending on your needs. After having tried and tested everything myself, I know how it’s difficult sometimes to get complete results with only one therapy, but having several methods and hundreds of techniques at our disposal, I know we can find the right strategies and techniques for you.
I know the recurring themes which run hidden beneath the issues you want to solve, I know how to pinpoint the cause of the problem with laser-like vision, and then I know how to help you resolve it – for good. This is all very clear to me now after having gone through these processes thousands of times with clients. You are in safe hands.
Through the personal guidance of 1-1 coaching, you will have the constant ongoing support and guidance I know is necessary to turn your situation around in the easiest and quickest way.
By only working with a few clients at a time you can be assured of my total commitment and attention to you, where you will be in my thoughts even in between sessions. My desire and goal to help you reach your outcomes is constant and consistent during our time together, and even when you have finished your program, I will still care about how you are doing in your life, and will reach out to you from time to time to see how you are going.
The bottom line is, I genuinely care about your success. You are not a number, you are a unique, valued and valuable human being, and I want the best for you from the bottom of my heart.
I know it’s been hard for you up to this point with what you have had to put up with up until now. I know the struggle of getting through each day, wondering if you can go on another moment.
I am here to help you change all this. No longer will you be alone wondering what the right thing to do is. You will have clear guidance every step of the way until you reach your goals.
So in many ways we are peas in a pod. I have been where you are now, I know how bad it feels, and I know what it’s like to not know where to turn for help, or feeling like you don’t know how you can go on. I know what it’s like to take two steps forward and one back, and wonder if you are doing the right thing, and even sometimes really afraid that things will never get better.
I know what it’s like to be so exhausted with fatigue you can’t even walk to the end of your driveway, or drive 5 minutes to the shops for food…
I know what it’s like to feel so depressed and down that it feels like it’s impossible to imagine there could ever be light at the end of the tunnel…
I know what it’s like to be in such excruciating pain that even the strongest of painkillers don’t make a dent, even to the point of being ambulanced to hospital…
I know what it’s like to try so many different therapies and yet nothing seems to work, and then after a while it just feels like a waste of time… and money.
I know what it’s like to feel like you have no-one to turn to and that no-one seems to have the answers. I spent 10 years searching for answers until I finally found them. And now I can short-cut that process for you into a few days, weeks or months.
I know what it’s like to feel like you don’t have a right to live your dreams or even be happy. I know what it’s like to feel completely alone and unsupported on your journey.
I know what it’s like to be on a social security benefit and not be able to pay your rent or buy food. I understand first hand the financial stress that can come as a result of being ill and unable to work.
And I know what it’s like to be constantly scared and worried that things may get worse rather than better, and that maybe it’s all totally hopeless. I know what it feels like to feel that perhaps the only option is to give up.
I also know that together we… YOU… can come through this, because if I have done it, and hundreds of others have done it too… you can too.
There is always hope as long as you never give up. The body-mind has an incredible ability to restore health and harmony as long as you know how to do that, and I know how to show you.
I know you have what it takes within you to turn it around, because as humans we have an extraordinary ability to triumph even the most dire circumstances. It’s just within our DNA, even though it might seem impossible right now.
When we work together you will be guided step-by-step, in a paint-by-number fashion to reach your outcome. You don’t need to know the ‘how’ – that’s for me to show you the how. All you have to do is commit and turn up, and then together we do the rest. Your job is just to decide you want the outcome, commit with a big whole-hearted YES, and then our journey together begins.
You can do this. You deserve it. You are worth it. And together we can do it.